This sign should be parked in front of my child’s school.
So why am I annoyed? My phone calls to people I need to speak to have not been returned, and my email has been ignored. Am I that hard to track down? Are people scared of me? Are they hoping that if they ignore me, I will eventually stop bothering them? Are they hoping that by not talking to me the problem will just go away?
As each day passes my frustration grows, and I find that I am running out of patience. For the record, this issue has been going on for over a month now, so I feel I have been more than patient.
I understand that the school has 1100 students. (Don’t get me started on that number.) I know our problems may seem small and petty to those who run the school. However, the school did promise at orientation that they would take care of my child, and my child is safe in their environment. I’m seriously beginning to doubt this statement. If I can’t get the school to pay attention to a small problem, how can I have confidence that they can handle a huge problem?
I’m torn. The momma bear in me is just roaring with anger, but the teacher in me is trying to stay calm. I’m trying to remember that schools are very busy places, especially schools with 1100 adolescents/teens within those 4 walls. I just can’t figure out why communicating with me is so difficult.
As an educator, I know how hard it is to return phone calls and emails. Yet, I try my best to take care of those things as quickly as possible. If I don’t know the answer I promise to find it for the parents, and I get back to them in a timely manner. I also will apologize if I miss or forget something or someone and I try to rectify the situation as soon as possible. Is it too much for me to expect the same from my child’s educators and administration?
I realize my son is just one of 1100 students. I get that. However, this is my child. I had given my trust to this school to take care of him, and they are expecting me to trust them to take care of my daughter too. I don’t think I can trust this environment right now.
Can you understand why I am so annoyed? (and frustrated, angry, worried, scared, defeated…)
Mrs. V
They’ve put boogers in my cereal, haven’t they?

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